relay: admit loopback and the host itself before the DROP

The bridge-subnet-only pair dropped the host's own health probe
(source 192.168.0.143/127.0.0.1) and failed a healthy deploy. The
deployer now installs the full set: ACCEPT 127.0.0.1, ACCEPT the host
IP, ACCEPT 10.89.0.0/16, then DROP.

serverAppConfigs-docs/Infrastructure/Observability.md

@@ -40,7 +40,7 @@ Recorded 2026-09-11, on the day the stack moved to Quadlet units. Everything in
 
 - **Grafana has a datasource and one dashboard as of 2026-09-16; before that it had neither.** `shared/grafana/provisioning/` is installed to `/opt/grafana/provisioning` by the deployer and read by the container: the Prometheus datasource (`http://prometheus:9090`, fixed uid `prometheus`) and the **LLM fleet — capacity and reuse** dashboard (speculative acceptance, queue depth, prefix-cache reuse, decode step rate, throughput) covering the llama.cpp endpoints. **Re-cut on 2026-09-16**: the panels were keyed to `vllm:` series, which stopped existing when frank-medium moved to llama.cpp, and two of them (KV-pool fill, request-latency p95) have no llama.cpp equivalent at all — those two are retired rather than restated, and the acceptance panel replaces the KV one. A renamed query against a series that does not exist is a panel that draws nothing forever. Verified through the API rather than by eye — the datasource answers `llamacpp:` counters for `frank-medium`, and `GET /api/search?type=dash-db` returns uid `llm-fleet`. One trap worth knowing: a provisioned dashboard does **not** appear in the legacy `dashboard` table on this Grafana version (it lives in unified storage …
 - **Grafana's dashboard now also surfaces firing alerts.** The **Alerts firing (ALERTS)** panel graphs `ALERTS{alertstate="firing"}` for the LLM rules, because this stack has no other place where an alert becomes visible without opening Prometheus.
-- **Prometheus now evaluates rules, and they are delivered (2026-09-17).** `shared/prometheus/rules/llm-fleet.yml` ships with the config (the deployer's `copy_prometheus_config` installs both — a rule file nothing loads evaluates nothing, and Prometheus reports no error for that) and holds five rules for the LLM fleet: request queueing, prefix-cache collapse, speculative decoding off, endpoint down, plus the `job:llm_prefix_cache_reuse:rate5m` recording rule the alert and the dashboard share. **Two rules from the vLLM era were retired, not renamed**, because the series they watched no longer exist: KV-pool saturation (llama.cpp exports no KV-fill gauge; its consequence *is* queueing, which `LlmRequestsQueueing` already covers) and p95 request latency (no latency histogram). `LlmSpecDecodeOff` takes the second slot — the failure a client cannot see, since a lost drafter just halves the speed. Verified with `promtool check rules` and `/api/v1/rules` (`health=ok` for all five). **Delivery went live 2026-09-17**: the `alerting:` block in `prometheus.yml` points at `alertmanager:9093` (container name on `dankclaw_default` — the published port is loopback-only and would be wrong from inside Prometheus). Alertmanager groups by `alertname` (30 s group wait, 5 m interval, 4 h repeat) and webhooks the host-side **Signal relay** at `host.containers.internal:18093/alertmanager` — the relay binds the host's LAN IP (192.168.0.143:18093, the one address netavark delivers that dial to), with an iptables pair admitting the podman bridge subnet only. The relay (`scripts/signal-relay.py`, a systemd *user* unit, not a quadlet — it runs python3 from the checkout and can be enabled) dedupes per group for 15 minutes and sends through **signal-cli account 318311** (`/usr/local/bin/signal-cli`, state in `~/.local/share/signal-cli`), Frank's existing account. The Grafana dashboard's ALERTS panel and Prometheus' `/alerts` remain the second and third surfaces.
+- **Prometheus now evaluates rules, and they are delivered (2026-09-17).** `shared/prometheus/rules/llm-fleet.yml` ships with the config (the deployer's `copy_prometheus_config` installs both — a rule file nothing loads evaluates nothing, and Prometheus reports no error for that) and holds five rules for the LLM fleet: request queueing, prefix-cache collapse, speculative decoding off, endpoint down, plus the `job:llm_prefix_cache_reuse:rate5m` recording rule the alert and the dashboard share. **Two rules from the vLLM era were retired, not renamed**, because the series they watched no longer exist: KV-pool saturation (llama.cpp exports no KV-fill gauge; its consequence *is* queueing, which `LlmRequestsQueueing` already covers) and p95 request latency (no latency histogram). `LlmSpecDecodeOff` takes the second slot — the failure a client cannot see, since a lost drafter just halves the speed. Verified with `promtool check rules` and `/api/v1/rules` (`health=ok` for all five). **Delivery went live 2026-09-17**: the `alerting:` block in `prometheus.yml` points at `alertmanager:9093` (container name on `dankclaw_default` — the published port is loopback-only and would be wrong from inside Prometheus). Alertmanager groups by `alertname` (30 s group wait, 5 m interval, 4 h repeat) and webhooks the host-side **Signal relay** at `host.containers.internal:18093/alertmanager` — the relay binds the host's LAN IP (192.168.0.143:18093, the one address netavark delivers that dial to), with an iptables set admitting loopback, the host and the podman bridge subnet only. The relay (`scripts/signal-relay.py`, a systemd *user* unit, not a quadlet — it runs python3 from the checkout and can be enabled) dedupes per group for 15 minutes and sends through **signal-cli account 318311** (`/usr/local/bin/signal-cli`, state in `~/.local/share/signal-cli`), Frank's existing account. The Grafana dashboard's ALERTS panel and Prometheus' `/alerts` remain the second and third surfaces.
 - **Loki is configured but unread.** Storage is filesystem with 30-day retention, `auth_enabled: false`, and the push path works; Grafana can now reach it in Explore, but no dashboard or alert consumes it.
 - **node-exporter runs its default collector set** — no collector tuning, no textfile collector for custom metrics.
 - **Alloy is the one configured piece.** It ships the host journal and podman container logs to Loki with `job` labels, and that pipeline is live.