scripts: unified deploy.sh; units + bench point at the merged checkout

deploy.sh now deploys both workloads per target in one run:
push -> pull on /home/dank/serverAppConfigs -> podman stack steps
(dankclaw) -> LLM unit relink + daemon-reload + service restart ->
homepage health + LLM health (up to 20 min model-load wait).
Sudo: plain sudo on the fleet hosts (passwordless verified
2026-08-22); FRANK_SUDO_PW covers headless runs elsewhere. The
vllmScripts deploy.sh is superseded.

Units: frank-default-{small,large,npu}.service now reference
/home/dank/serverAppConfigs/scripts/... (the merged checkout).
bench-spec-stack.sh: env file path updated to the merged checkout.

scripts/frank-default-npu.service

@@ -7,8 +7,8 @@ Wants=network-online.target
 Type=simple
 User=dank
 Group=dank
-Environment="FLM_NPU_ENV_FILE=/home/dank/vllmScripts/scripts/frank-default-npu.env"
-ExecStart=/home/dank/vllmScripts/scripts/serve-frank-default-npu.sh
+Environment="FLM_NPU_ENV_FILE=/home/dank/serverAppConfigs/scripts/frank-default-npu.env"
+ExecStart=/home/dank/serverAppConfigs/scripts/serve-frank-default-npu.sh
 LimitMEMLOCK=infinity
 Restart=on-failure
 RestartSec=10