agent: repoint FLM-NPU model roles off the retired provider; sync memory/skills

config.yml: vision -> llamacpp (dankclaw)/frank-large:auto,
tiny -> llamacpp (dankserver)/frank-small:off,
task -> llamacpp (dankclaw)/frank-large:medium (was flm dankclaw-npu),
matching the flm (dankclaw-npu) provider removal in models.yml.

Memories/managed skills: rollouts and learned notes from the frank-large
KV-pool + sampler work and the noctalia recolor; merged the duplicate
noctalia-palette-recolor skill into noctalia-custom-palette-recolor (adds
the dotfiles-tracking step and the +show-config delta gotcha) and dropped
the superseded legacy memory skills whose ghostty USR1 reload recipe is
wrong for this fleet.

agent/memories/--home-blank-Projects-serverAppConfig--/skills/frank_large/scripts/check_kpool.sh

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+#!/bin/bash
+# Verify KV pool slots and memory stability
+docker inspect frank-large --format '{{.Config.Env}}'
+podman logs frank-large 2>&1 | grep -E '^(dmalloc|kv pool):'
+echo "Slots: HALOGEN_KV_SLOTS"
+echo "Memory: ~103.4 GiB (68W + 14.4KV + 21W)"